by KCLAnderson | Jan 11, 2019 | Awareness, Feminism, Generational patterns, Mother-daughter relationship, The Wisdom of Others
Christmas Day, 2018 On a day that would normally be filled with busyness and family, my husband was in bed with what we thought was the flu (it wasn’t…and he’s fine) and I was zoning out on Facebook. A message request came through from a woman who...
by KCLAnderson | Jan 4, 2019 | Awareness, Boundaries, Generational patterns, The Wisdom of Others
Dear you… This work is iterative. It builds on itself. It’s rarely one-and-done. It’s very rarely ever a simple flip of the switch. You choose to look inward, to heal, to transform yourself using the lens of your relationship with your mother. You...
by KCLAnderson | Dec 21, 2018 | Boundaries, Empowerment, Mother-daughter relationship, Re-mothering, Relationships, Self-Acceptance
Imagine me reading this to your mother…or, if you’d like to hear me read it, click here. Also, your mother may be mentally ill, addicted, and/or have a personality disorder that prevents her from having the empathy and ability to hear and receive this...
by KCLAnderson | Dec 7, 2018 | Generational patterns, Liberty Session, Mother-daughter relationship, narcissism, Shadow
“What if I become just like her?” This is such a common fear amongst women who struggle in their relationship with their difficult mothers. I heard someone say recently that narcissism is learned behavior…a learned coping mechanism. My mother used to...
by KCLAnderson | Nov 2, 2018 | Awareness, Emotions, Empowerment, Re-mothering, Self-Acceptance, Shadow, Shame
I wrote this in response to a query from a writer for Martha Stewart magazine who was looking for answers from women 50+ to this question: What’s the #1 piece of advice you’d like to tell your younger self? My answer wasn’t used, so I am sharing it...
