Advice, Essays, and other bits of wisdom
Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live; it's asking others to live as one wishes to live. ~ Ruth Rendell Difficult mothers often want their adult daughters to live as they do (without even...
[exploring a dynamic at the heart of some difficult mother-daughter relationships] A while back I watched The Graduate. I'd seen it once before, many years ago, when I was a plastics industry trade...
[I've been asked many times over the years why it's so hard for some of us to have anything more than "superficial" conversations with our mothers or daughters...after a recent conversation with my...
Last summer my mother asked me why I didn’t want to have children. She was sure there was a specific reason like: “You didn’t want to have to clean poopy diapers or hold someone’s head while they...
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