Summoning equanimity = the difference between “I don’t care what people think!” and letting people think whatever they want to think

Summoning equanimity = the difference between “I don’t care what people think!” and letting people think whatever they want to think

Old story: I wonder what so-and-so thinks about me (about that blog post I wrote, about that thing I offered, about what I said on Facebook)? I hope they’re thinking positive things. What if they’re thinking not-positive things? And – especially – what if they’re...